July just flew by...

I know I'm 8 days late to still be writing about July. But it's just that I couldn't really get myself to write about this month. One can say I'm suffering from a partial writer's block, but its also the time crunch of doing so many things in so little time. I will first get to July, well coming straight to the point this has been by far the most toughest, longest yet fastest month of 2010 for me. It was like everything happening suddenly out of the blue without any warning, like the things that one is used to seeing in films- only happening to others but never to yourself.
So to begin with I lost my diamond earring. It was a precious piece of object something that i had bought for myself. Empathising statements like "Oh, that's okay it's gone you will get more diamonds in life" or "What has happened has happened" render only temporary solace. What matters is that I lost it and lost it for no fault of mine or of anybody else. it wasn't robbed and nor was i careless-wore it for more than a year without losing it even once before. My best guess is that it just went down the drain and it's lost forever and I have to forget about it, which I have. A lot of other things not worthy of detailing on the blog also happened this month, all i can say is that they drained me emotionally. But yeah it's okay I don't wanna sound like a sad drama queen a.ka. Meena Kumari.
Here's the fun part of July, one my best friends turned 24 that's the second one of us to turn that loveable age- when you are in middle of everything not too old not too young. You even turn a decision-maker of your life- marriage, job, career, further studies, etc etc suddenly you are the boss of your own life and the world is watching you intently with surrepitious glances. All one needs to do is stay focused
and have a good strategy to live ones life. My roadmap to matrimony gets hilarious by the day. Truns out men in my community are either married, engaged, dating or living in the US. Four new options were noted down this Sunday, I don't know what's happening further. I don't ask until they tellme, so yeah that's pretty much set.
Marriage is a subjective and personal issue it will happen when it has to happen and with the person you are meant to be with. You can have a hundred crushes and supposed "I'm in Love moments" but your life partner will be the last man you meet. Sadly, these days marriage comes with an expiry date. You don't know when it begins and when it shall end. According to me, it's nobody's fault, the GenY is just conditioned to be like that full of ego. We are so self-obssessed, self-absorbed in our own little world that sharing, compromising and understanding seem like ancient traditions not to be practiced any more. I might sound cynical almost like I don't believe in this institution as people who speak the truth are always taken as negative souls. But that's not true! Sharing your life with someone special,someone who will be a witness to your existence long after your parents and your immediate family is the most beautiful thing invented by humans.

All said and done...July has just flown away taking and giving me watever it had to. Now I'm getting ready for the August Rush!!!

Adios...